Me? Why?

The life of ego is between "Why should I?" and "Why not I?".

Let ego go,
when you depend on them,
when your relation is deep.

Let ego stay,
when you are independent,
when your relation with nobody is deep,
call it self-esteem.

Life doesn't give us anything of its own.
It is all a response to the stimulus(actions we do and decisions we take) we give.
Be always the king of your life and rule it.